15 Things Tourists Should Never Do When Visiting Italy (That Make Locals Cringe)

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Ah, Italy – where art-filled cities meet sun-drenched coastlines, where centuries-old traditions dance with modern life, and where every meal is an occasion to celebrate.

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I’ve spent over three months traveling throughout Italy on multiple trips and watched countless tourists fall head over heels for Italy’s charms.

However, I’ve also seen them stumble into cultural faux pas that could have easily been avoided.

Here are 15 things you should never do when visiting Italy.

15 Things Tourists Should Never Do When Visiting Italy

As someone who has traveled to Italy multiple times and experienced both its treasures and tourist traps, I’ve compiled a list of essential don’ts for anyone planning to visit this beautiful country.

1. Never Order Cappuccino After 11am (or After Meals)

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Cappuccino is strictly a breakfast drink in Italy. Ordering it for lunch or dinner is considered a faux pas.

If you need a coffee fix after meals, order an espresso (called “un caffè”) instead. This shows respect for Italian coffee culture and dining traditions.


2. Never Accept “Free” Bracelets from Strangers

A common scam involves people offering “friendship bracelets” as gifts, then demanding payment. Some might even try to tie it on your wrist or throw it at you.

The best strategy is to completely ignore these approaches and walk away promptly. It’s particularly common around tourist hotspots.


3. Never Hang Your Bag/Backpack on Your Chair

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While Italy’s cities are generally safe, petty theft can occur, especially in tourist areas. Never hang your bags on the back of your chair while dining.

Keep them close – either between your legs, on your lap, or in front of you where you can see them. This is particularly important in busy areas and outdoor cafes.


4. Never Visit Multiple Cities in One Day

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Resist the temptation to cram too many destinations into your itinerary.

Racing between Florence, Pisa, and Siena in one day will leave you exhausted and unable to appreciate each location’s unique charm. Choose fewer destinations and explore them properly.


5. Never Wear Inappropriate Attire at Religious Sites

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Churches and religious sites have strict dress codes. Cover your shoulders and knees, and avoid flip-flops.

Carry a scarf or light coverup to ensure you can enter these sacred places.

This simple show of respect will allow you to access Italy’s beautiful religious buildings.


6. Never Fall for Tourist Trap Restaurants

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Avoid restaurants with menu boards featuring food pictures, multiple language translations, or aggressive hosts.

Instead, venture a few blocks from tourist areas and look for restaurants filled with locals.

The best Italian dining experiences are often in small, family-run establishments.


7. Never Ask for Italian Dressing

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“Italian dressing” doesn’t exist in Italy. Salads are dressed simply with quality olive oil, vinegar (balsamic or red wine), and salt, usually provided separately at the table.

This minimalist approach lets fresh ingredients shine.


8. Never Assume Everyone Speaks English

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While many Italians in tourist areas speak English, don’t assume everyone will.

Learn basic phrases like “grazie,” “per favore,” and “scusi.” Speaking slowly and clearly in English is more effective than speaking loudly.


9. Never Touch Produce at Markets Without Permission

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In Italian markets, let the vendor select your produce. If you’re at a supermarket, use the provided plastic gloves.

This is both a hygiene requirement and a cultural norm that’s taken seriously.


10. Never Order Spaghetti Bolognese

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“Spaghetti Bolognese” doesn’t exist in authentic Italian cuisine. The real dish is “Ragù alla Bolognese” served with tagliatelle.

Each region has its own traditional pasta dishes – try these local specialties instead.


11. Never Tip at Restaurants

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Tipping isn’t expected like in some countries. Most restaurants include a service charge (servizio), and additional tipping is optional.

Rounding up or leaving a few euros is sufficient for exceptional service.


12. Never Ask for Pineapple on Pizza

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This is a serious culinary offense in Italy. Traditional pizza is a matter of cultural pride with specific combinations perfected over generations.

Stick to authentic toppings like fresh mozzarella, basil, and local ingredients.


13. Never Cut Your Spaghetti

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Cutting spaghetti is considered disrespectful to both the pasta and tradition. Instead, twirl it against your spoon or plate.

This technique takes practice but is worth mastering for an authentic Italian dining experience.


14. Never Ask for Ketchup

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Asking for ketchup, especially for pasta or pizza, is considered an insult to Italian cuisine. Many restaurants won’t even stock it.

If needed, use traditional condiments like olive oil, balsamic vinegar, or peperoncino.


15. Never Visit Public Toilets Without Coins and Tissues

Carry coins (€0.50-€1) and tissues when exploring Italian cities. Paid toilets are typically cleaner than free ones, but neither guarantees toilet paper.

Consider using facilities in museums or restaurants where you’re dining for better-maintained options.


Final Thoughts on What Not to Do in Italy

By avoiding these common mistakes, you’ll have a more authentic and enjoyable experience in Italy while showing respect for local customs and traditions.

Remember that Italy’s charm lies not just in its famous sites and attractions, but in its way of life.

Embrace the local culture, take things slowly, and allow yourself to be immersed in the Italian lifestyle.

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Jolene Ejmont

Originally from South Africa, now living in Australia, Jolene is a wife and a mother to three beautiful daughters. Together with her family, she is embarking on a journey towards changing her current stress-filled life to one focusing on her dreams and her passion for travel. She wants to share her stories in the hope to inspire you to chase your own dreams!